7 NEGATIVE IMPACTS OF SEX IN DATING WORTH KNOWING

Sex is one of the most sorts after in dating these days by singles, and they seem to like it a lot but have failed in many ways to think about its negative impacts. 

Almost all singles will tell you sex is sweet and enjoyable and not sure if it has any negative impacts, involved. 

Now, I will love to show you these hidden negative impacts of sex in dating you perhaps have never imagined or know about.

 

SEX IS A BOND.

It is not just a physical bond but a spiritual bond, and the sooner you know this, the better for you. 

 

Most singles may see sex as a sweet ride or fun, but it is far deeper than what you think. As soon as you start off having or indulging in sex with your date, there is an automatic soul tie or bond that is irresistible and unbreakable.

 

The negative impact is that by the time you decide to walk out of the relationship, eventually when you know, the relationship is not right. It becomes almost impossible to do because there is an existing bond already you never knew would exist between both of you. 

 

That is why most singles stay too long in a relationship and cannot pull out even when they know there is no existing compatibility. Some six years or more, they can’t get out. And some remind single for life because they never knew there is more to sex than the pleasure they have in the flesh when having it.

  

SEX IS A SHIELD.  

 

Sex can cover your eyes against the wrong side of your date or the person you are dating. I want to say sex covers a multitude of sins.  

 

Now, instead of you to know your date in and out, you decide to go into sex first, now this is what it will do to you. You wouldn’t know your date as you would have wanted. Even if he or she can’t make a good partner or spouse, you still see yourself plugging yourself into the relationship that would eventually hit the rock. 

 

Sex is a blindfold in dating, it has a powerful way of blocking your mind and sense of reasoning from knowing details about your date, so in this regard, the impact of having sex in dating is immense catastrophic at the end.

 

 SEX IN DATING CAN LEAD TO AN UNEXPECTED PREGNANCY. 

 

As a female single, you might get pregnant with someone you may later discover or find out eventually you don’t actually love or you are not compatible with. Most cases, abortion may be another bad impact of sex, especially when your date tells you he is not responsible. Then you have no choice but to get rid of the pregnancy or risk having the child and become a single mother, you never wished or dreamt of becoming.

 

SEX CAN LEAD TO DEPRESSION AND HEARTBREAK. 

 

Imagine the date you once started with by having sex now decided to look for another relationship by abandoning you. Now, the first cold that would climb your body is the fear of missing him or her. What exactly is about missing him or her? It is all about missing sex, and the thought of it can lead to depression, heartbreak and sometimes committing suicide by the one affected more in the relationship. This is crazy, but this is happening in relationships around us on a daily.

 

SEX MAY LEAD TO UNFAITHFULNESS IN MARRIAGES. 

 

This is simple to explain. As I said before when you enter a relationship having sex, and eventually you pull out when you felt the relationship wasn’t right maybe by the help of your parent or friends, there is already an existing bond that is not broken with your ex. Somehow, even when you have successfully married much later you still see yourself having the sexual feeling that is not completely dead with your ex driven by past passion and then the tendencies to have sex with your ex is inevitable in most cases. 

Some persons involved in this kind of mess travel out of the city or town they knew they once had a sex bond to avoid sex with their ex. 

It is a bond already, better don’t go into having sex in dating or you live with its horrible impact struggling all your life to deal with your emotion, imagination and the past romantic pleasures that pops up in your head to your eyes now and then when you see or think about your ex.

 

 

SEX IN DATING MAY LEAD TO PROSTITUTION. 

 

Many single ladies didn’t just start prostitution overnight. There was a beginning. It all started when they started having multiple sex dating relationships, and none seems to be working out. Some received money for what looks like service rendered. And with the mindset that marriage won’t come just yet, they reluctantly gave their bodies to prostitution. Soon, the money is what matters now and nothing else. 

This is how most singles lived their lives now and having sex in more relationships they entered that never succeeded lead to the addiction and eventually, an unending prostitution lifestyle. And if such singles eventually get married. Their marriage will be hell because their sex demand or drive may be too high for their spouse to handle. This may allow for cheating, disgusting you would say. 

I suggest strongly knowing your date history before taking a decision.

 

HAVING SEX IN DATING CAN LEAD TO ADDICTION. 

 

This happens especially when you now have multiple sex dates. Since one seems not to be working for you and you get to try the other. I mean you go on and on, having what I describe as flirting dating.

You tell lies to your date while you still have other dating relationships going on somewhere. Soon one date doesn’t seem to satisfy you anymore. Is like a man always having a cigarette in his lips, smoking away his sorrows. 

Sex addiction is a serious condition that seems not to have any drug for it. You must watch it now before you become a victim of sex addiction.

 

As a single young man or lady, therefore, you must be determined to get married to a compatible life partner from the start, you must avoid sex in dating. 

Some may argue it is not possible to avoid sex in dating and I will tell you that’s why you need to read the 7 negative impacts of sex in dating again and weigh the consequences ahead and then make a choice. The wrong choice made each day is the most painful reason we see a lot happening in marriages today. Divorces, broken homes, single parent, suicides, drug abuse and the nuisance happening around us as a people. These are only but few obvious negative consequences that cannot be avoided. It would be best if you didn’t forget that those in marriages once started as singles. 

Study these negative impacts of sex in dating, again and again, to learn and make the future better for you and your future family. 

 

Make the right choice now and reap the positive benefits tomorrow, like what God’s word says, what you sow, you reap.

  

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